The roots of feminism in the Women’s Suffrage Movement was originally a Christian thing, and it was an important and needed resetting of male and female roles. But a lot has changed since then.
When I was born, men were mostly the achievers: doctors, scientists, master chefs, and leaders of politics and industry. Women’s rights reset that to some extent, and men started to lose their identities.
In the early 2000s, it was okay to portray men (especially in sitcoms and commercials) as buffoons in a way that, if you switched the genders, there would have been an outrage. There was a backlash, and it identified men with beer, bbq, sports, and war. There was also the endearing slacker/surfer/stoner type. None of those helped to dignify what it means to be a man.
So, men now don't have the traditional role models from black-and-white TV, and the the lowest-common-denominator roles don't fit.
What is the modern idea of a man and what should it be?